This letter from the mother who cut her heart. Tears falling fast tersusunnya accompanies this paper. I see you again handsome guy mature. Please read this letter. And you tore it may afterwards, like when you crush my soul before.
Since doctors notify about pregnancy, I'm happy. Mothers understand the meaning of this very well. Initial excitement and both psychological and physical changes. Nine months I bore you. All the activities I was live with difficulty because of the baby. Still, do not reduce happiness. Never-ending misery, even death in front of my eyes I saw when I gave birth. Scream tears shed our tears of joy.
Next, I like the waiter who never rest. Kepenatanku for your good health. Anxiety for your good. Hope just wanted to see the smile senses and grant the mother to make something.
Adolescence also you entered. Manhood more visible, I also seek to find a girl who will accompany your life. Then came the moment you marry. My heart is saddened by your leaving, but I'm still happy because you have a new life.
Over time, I feel you are not my old self. Right I've forgotten. I have long met no, even over the phone. Mother does not require all kinds. Once a month, make your mother is a haven, although only a few minutes just to see my son.
Mother is now very weak. His back was bent over, shaking often whipped up the body and various diseases can not get enough to stop me. Mother getting harder to move.
My son ...
If there is to do good to you, surely she will be grateful to him. While she has so long to do good to yourself. Which reward and thank your love on Mother? Did you have run out of a sense of your love on Mother? Mother wondered what sin causes you reluctant to see and visit you? Well, think of Mother as a helper, where wages you've been?
My son ..
Mom just wanted to see it. Others do not. When did your heart pitiful and yield to the old woman who was weak and afflicted longing, and grief and sorrow? Mother did not have the heart to complain to the Essence of this condition are up there. Mom also will not pass this pain to others. Because, this will drag you to the lawlessness. Accident and any punishment will befall the world before the afterlife. Mother would not have the heart to do it,
My son ...
Although the fruit however you still my heart, and the light of life interest me ...
My son ...
Travel year will grow gray hairs on your head. And the replies come from the kind deeds done. Later, you will write a letter to your descendants with tears in his eyes as the natural mother. On the side of God, will one day come together so many people who sue.
My son ..
Fear thou God for kedurhakaanmu to Mother. Sekalah my tears, my grief ringankanlah burden. Whatever you if you want to tear up this letter. Know, "Whoever is righteous good deed it for himself. And those who do bad, then it is (also) own dependents ".
My son ...
Remember when you were in the mother's abdomen. Remember, too, as a very intense labor. She felt the conditions of life or death. Blood birth mother's life. Remember when you are breastfeeding. Remember caress sayag and exhausted mother when you are sick. Remember ... .. Remember .... Because of that, God will confirm with: "O, Rabbku, both of them to care like they love me when I was little".
My son ...
Allah says: "And in those stories there are lessons to people understanding" [Yusuf: 111]
Look at the example in Islam, the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam was still alive, so you get the portrait of devotion to the child's parents.
STORY EXAMPLE TO PARENTS
Companions, Abu Hurayrah had troubled because his mother was still in bondage, infidelity. Mentioned in saheeh Muslim, from Abu Hurairah, he told me.
I mendakwahi mother to convert to Islam. One day I asked her to convert to Islam, but instead he issued a statement about the Prophet which I hate. I (also) seeing the Prophet in a state of crying. I complained.
"Messenger of Allah, I've persuaded my mother to convert to Islam, but she turned me down. Today, he commented about you that I hate. Ask God to give guidance mother of Abu Hurayrah ". The Prophet said: "Oh, God. Abu Hurairah Tunjukilah mother ". I went out with a cheerful heart because the prayer of the Prophet. When I came home and approached the door, the door was open. My mother heard my feet and said: "Stay there, Abu Hurayrah". I heard running water. My mother was in the shower and then put on his clothes and covered her face, and then open the door. And he said: "O Abu Hurairah! Asyhadu an La ilaha illa Allah wa Muhammadan Asyhadu Anna Abduhu wa Rasuluhu ". I returned to the Prophet with a happy cry. I said, "O, Messenger, Have fun. God has granted my mother do'amu and guides ". Then he praised Allah and flattering and well commented "[Hadith Muslim History]
Ibn 'Umar never saw the man carrying his mother in thawaf. He asked: "Does this service have paid off (to me), O Ibn 'Umar?" He replied: "No, although only one cry of pain (at birth)".
Zainal Abidin, was a well-known devotion to the mother. People are surprised him (and said): "You are the people most devoted to the mother. Why do we never see you eat together with him in a tray "? He replied, "I'm afraid my hand to take something that ogled her eyes, so I disobeyed him".
Previously, a more poignant story happened to Uwais Al-Qarni, people who already believe in the Prophet, had dreamed to migrate to Medina to meet with the Prophet. But his attention to his mother had delaying determination migrate. He wanted to reach heaven and make friends with the Prophet with his devotion to the mother, despite losing the glory He became friends in the world.
In authentic Muslims, from USAir bin Jabir, he said: When the group came from Yemen, Umar asked them: "Is bin Amir Uwais with you?" To finally meet Uwais. Umar asked, "You Uwais bin Amir?" He menjawa, "True". Umar asked, "You from Murad and then switch to Qarn?" He replied, "Yes". Umar asked, "You have a mother?". He replied, "Yes". Umar (were) began, "I heard the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam said.
"I'll come to you Uwais ibn Amir in the entourage of the people of Yemen who came from Murad and then from Qarn. He never hit cured leprosy and, except for the metal skin dirhams. He has a mother who is very respected. If he swears in the name of Allah, I respect his vow. Ask him if beristighfar you meet ".
(Umar said), "Please ask God (Allah) for me". So he pleaded for forgiveness for me. Umar asked, "Where are you going?". He replied, "Kufa". Umar said, "Would you, if I write (recommendation) for you to the governor (Kufa)?" He replied, "I prefer with strangers".
Another story about the devotion to the mother, namely Abdullah bin Aun had called his mother in a loud voice, so he freed two slaves as a sign of remorse.
STORY TO PARENTS iniquity
Told there was a very rebellious boy to his father until his father's heart to bring to the front door to her away from home. The father is endowed with a more rebellious child from her. The boy was dragged to his father until kejalanan away from home. So the father said: "Enough ... I used to just drag my father to the front door". The son replied: "That balasanmu. The additional sedekh this as me! ".
Another poignant story, a mother who tells her grief: "One day my wife asked her husband (my son) to put me in a separate room, outside the house. Without hesitation, my son agreed. When winter is very sharp, I'm trying to get into the house, but the doors locked. The cold was piercing my body. Condition worse. My son wanted to take me a little market place. My guess to the hospital, but he was dumped into a nursing home. And after that the song never see me "
In closing, we must understand that devotion to parents is straightforward and honorable way to bring a child into the paradise of God. Conversely, iniquity to them, could drag the kids into the valley of humiliation, hell.
Be careful, disobedience to parents, a big sin and a painful response. Prophet alaihi wa sallam said.
"Meaning: It insulted, humiliated and would be insulted!" The Companions asked, "O Rasulullahj, who the hell?" He said, "People who discover their parents, or one of them in her old age, but he (still) go to hell" [Hadith Muslim History]
[Adapted from Idatush Shabirin, by Abdullah bin Ibrahim Al-Qa'rawi and Ilzam Rijlaha Fatsamma al-Jannah, by Shalihj bin Rashid al-Huwaimil]
[Retrieved from Majalah As-Sunnah 11/Tahun VIII/1425/2005M Edition. Lajnah Istiqomah Penerbiit Surakarta Foundation, Jl. Solo - 8 Km Selokaton Purwodadi Gondangrejo - Solo 57,183]
Source: almanhaj.or.id
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